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what exactly are you protesting?
I went to the University of Wisconsin-Madison, which anyone will tell you is a pretty liberal place. Â I consider myself a moderate, and probably overall a left-leaning moderate, but living there made me feel like a fringe conservative lunatic at times. Â I’ve never listened to Rush, but I’ve also never listened to Sen. Stuart Smalley, because ijiots at both ends are ruining America. Â I digress…
For two years, I lived next to the college Planned Parenthood clinic.  It was in the middle of a residential block, and if you weren’t looking for it, you probably would never have seen it.  It pretty much just blended in with the other buildings and houses.  It was a pretty small clinic and had  odd hours, so it was usually pretty busy when it was open, and there was occasionally a small line of people waiting outside for it to open.
This particular building only existed for one reason: prescribing birth control.  On a campus with thousands of young people, they fulfilled a vital function.
Imagine my surprise one morning when I walked past and there were protesters outside facing the building with signs. Â I kind of stared and shook my head, especially since Planned Parenthood hadn’t even opened yet. Â Yes, that’s right, they were protesting an empty building with no audience at all. Â Guess they didn’t check the hours before they planned the protest.
On my way back from class several hours later, they were still there. Â Only now, the building was open and there were people going in and out. Â I decided to walk by the protesters and see what their signs actually said. Â One lady was holding a sign that said, “I regret my abortion,” and another man was holding a sign that said, “Abortion is sin.” Â This actually made me stop and stare at them for a moment while I gathered my thoughts on what to say to them.
Regardless of your stance on abortion, these signs made no sense. Â They were protesting a clinic who’s sole purpose was to avoid pregnancy in the first place. These protesters should have been giving out high fives and cheering.
If they were protesting morality or promiscuity, that would have made more sense for them to be standing there (note: I am not commenting on whether or not this is something worth protesting, but at least the forum would have been correct.)
The two people with signs were still staring at me, waiting to pounce on me with whatever prepared speeches they had. Â I looked at the lady with the sign and said, “You do realize that they don’t do abortion here? Â Birth control only, right?”
The look in her eyes could only be described as confusion. Â She was trying to think of something to say back to that. Â The guy with the sign next to her stammered the start to a sentence or two, and then they both looked away and stared at the building again. Â This actually made me kind of sad, because I kind of wanted to know what they actually thought they were doing there.
My point to this whole story?
Whatever stance you take or belief you hold, there will be an asshat who will disagree with you just because they like being an asshat. Â They will think they know what’s what, but they really don’t know their hole in the ground from a fact, and they’re very good at yelling and making signs.
Don’t be an asshat. That’s not to say you can’t disagree, but PLEASE KNOW WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT BEFORE YOU TALK. Â If you can’t do that, just go run for office and make stuff up.
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about 1 year ago
It’s also funny about how many people that protest abortion also have a fit at the proposition of sex education or widening the access to birth control.
Like you said, they should be applauding.
about 1 year ago
I just go to those rallies with a sign that says, “I Disagree”. I always fit in that way. Let each decide on what I disagree about.
about 1 year ago
I like your style coffey, just to throw a wrench into their carefully laid plans
about 1 year ago
I feel embarrassed for asshats like those two, but only for a minute, so it wouldn’t keep me from advising them of their little error either. It’s bad enough that one of them didn’t get it, but TWO?! I suppose it’s illegal to round up all the ijiots, put them on short buses, and haul them off to whatever the opposite of MENSA is.
about 1 year ago
they come in bunches, like bananas and nuts.
about 1 year ago
A to the M to the E to the N!
Ijiots at both ends is damn straight! Call me crazy I tend to hang somewhere in the middle. But my conservative friends will tell you I play to the left all day long!
about 1 year ago
I love this post! I would have sincerely enjoyed being there to see her face, but really…who can be expected to gather facts when you’re busy judging though?
I like Coffey’s idea, if I could keep my mouth shut long enough for the sign to do the job for me.
about 1 year ago
I’m still a big fan of the “sex ed in schools = slutty teenagers” arguement. I mean, really, you could never mention the word “sex”, “condom” or “boner” to a teenage boy and they’re still going to figure out that they want to put their weiner in something. If anything “sex ed in schools = fewer dumb teenagers having babies/raging STDs”, but, you know, who wants that?
about 1 year ago
I’m bummed you didn’t have a camera to capture the expression on their faces.
But I completely agree with you. People should know what they are talking about before opening their mouth.
about 1 year ago
Finally! Yes! Thank you! If anyone is going to discuss something or protest something then get the damn facts right!! Awesome post.
about 1 year ago
It seems the idiots are always the loudest and most zealous. I think ignorance and a penchant for poster board go hand-in-hand.
I definitely agree with this post and wish most people would at least be willing to acknowledge the limits to their understanding of some matters. Like, say, business hours.
Morons.
about 1 year ago
Ugh, why don’t people bother to get the facts first!!!