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preparations for minion

So Wife is getting bigger, but its a funny bigger.  She’s a very small person who is in pretty good shape, so the baby is growing straight out the front of her.  If you see her from behind, you wouldn’t suspect that she’s got a baby-sized apartment growing on the other side of her.  The youngling has decided that its head should be down, its butt should be in one of her ribs, and her feet on the other rib.  This way, when it kicks, it can start breaking two ribs at the same time.  I’m already impressed by it’s efficiency.

I’ve More >

shiny lights

There’s been a trend growing the last couple years during Christmas that I think needs to stop. It was cute for awhile, but now it needs to go away.

Of course, I’m talking about inflatable Christmas decorations.

Once reserved for used car lots and community festivals/rich parents throwing a birthday party, inflatable decorations are out of control.

They do not make your lawn look good, or make it seem like the owner of the house has an outstanding holiday display. In fact, they do quite the opposite. Wherein hard plastic or wooden decorations have some sense of permanence , inflatable decorations say to the world, More >

lazy writer syndrome

I’ve noticed a trend that, like all things literary, television, and cinematic that I hate, I’m going to blame on Dan Brown.  That might not be exactly fair, but neither was tricking me into reading the “Da Vinci Code”.  Also, “National Treasure.”  That was terrible too.  And every episode of “Law and Order: SVU.”

What I’m talking about are the mystery stories without any mystery, the detective stories with very little detecting, and the cop stories where the killer confesses everything.  The hero might jump through a lot of hoops, but none of them paint a clearer picture.  The only thing More >

jester

Recently, a friend of mine’s mother died.  She was diagnosed with cancer and died about a month after.

My friend flew back from New York and stayed with her throughout the ordeal.  He told me about it after she passed, and I was able to make plans to come up and see him.

The drive was a couple hours, and only then did it hit me that I had no idea what to say.  What is the right thing to tell someone who had a parent die way too young?  What are the magic words to make it all better?

Of course there More >